Friday, September 02, 2005

THE INSIGHT INTO A STORY


Sometimes an insight into a story comes from unrelated events.

I was in Pudukottai in southern Tamil Nadu, doing a story on a group of Muslim women who have set up an all-womens jamaat. That is a big deal because traditionally the jamaat has been a male bastion. The jamaat is attached to every mosque and plays the role of conscience-keeper and arbitrator, doling out justice for the people who come before it.

But justice is not always done. To begin with, muslim women are not allowed to appear before the all-male jamaat. (Here, im talking only of Pudukottai. Maybe its different in other parts of the world). So if its a divorce, the husband is present to plead his case but the female is represented by a brother or father.


One of the womens jamaat members said, "The woman is involved in the dispute, but when it comes to the final resolution, she is nowhere in the picture!"

The all-womens jamaat was set up to deal with such and various other discriminatory practices. Sharifa Khanam, a bold, brassy woman set it up so that Muslim women would find a voice. She says, "This is not about religion, this is about power. Islam is a fair religion but these men have appropriated power over the years and dont want to give it up now."

I stored away that comment at the back of my mind and went out in search of these "megalomanical" men. I met some professors at the Arabic College in Pudukottai. All of them said that Sharifa and all the others in the jamaat were immoral. One bearded sage said, "They have a baaad character. They dont even wear the purdah...they come out in their nightie!" These men were genuinely of the opinion that a womans rightful place is at home.

Still i thought - old men stuck in their old thinking. So i searched for more men. More views.

I decided to find them outside a mosque after the evening prayer. Gathering a group around me i asked, "What do you think of the womens jamaat?" Most of them were dismissive of them, some even disdainful. The local cleric said, "Women should obey men. Thats the way it is in the shariat."

I began to believe the womens side of the story more - all the talk of oppression. But i was a bit unsatisfied because i felt i was reporting it in a he-said, she-said kind of way. Anyway, i decided to wrap up and shoot my piece-to-cameras or PTCs (where reporter stands before camera and delivers a few lines) and then head back home.

I planned to do a PTC right outside the mosque where I had met all those men. So the following day i was there again. But this time it was different. They were hostile. They didnt want me around. They thought i was being too nosey and that i should take my camera and leave. But they didnt bother being civil about it. Rude, ungentlemanly and arrogant - that's what they became. That's how they told me to bugger off.

I stood my ground and did the PTC right outside the mosque and indeed in quarreling with me, they had done me a favour. I finally got a real insight into how they must talk to their wives and daughters. The way they tried to bully me, I figured that they dont really treat women as equals. And in trying to collar me out, i felt that they were intolerant of too much questioning.

It didnt make a difference to the way i wrote the story. The "facts" of the case remained the same. I had no additional information - just a deeper insight. That's what I was talking about.



5 comments:

Anonymous said...

hey its really nice to read ur articles. You should write more often. what i like most about ur posts is that they are not highfalutin or pretentious at all. just simple comprehendable english.
Keep up the good work.

VHS said...

Hey...I remember seeing this one on TV and boy, was I amazed to hear him tell that 'Women should obey Men'! To say the least, he wasn't even trying to sound politically correct. To be so blatant on the camera, more so for a wrong reason, is indeed the height of ignominy.

Bala (Karthik) said...

Too bad i missed it on TV.
BTW, Pudukkottai is my mom's native place and thats where i was born too.
Reform and religion are mutually exclusive, in my opinion, though it may be debated that its the interpretation which is at fault. It'd be interesting to know how long the Jamat's been functioning for. And also, sadly how long it will be allowed to function. What about the men in the families of the Jamat's members?
Women and dalits share a similar plight in our country and i'm just beginning to think religion has overstayed and its high time it left

Alaphia said...

Hi anon,
Thanks for the appreciation. Smiles.

Alaphia said...

Hey VHS! Glad you caught it on TV. I was also equally amazed that this man was brazenly saying on camera that women should obey men. As a reporter i was salivating at what a splendid sound bite i had got!